Relationships can be pretty hard if you don’t really know what you’re doing. Let’s be honest, the vast majority of us don’t know what we’re doing – especially when we fall hard for someone. Our thought process takes a knock, and we end up making stupid decisions because our brains have suddenly decided to start functioning a little differently. This is compounded if we fall for someone who we’re sure doesn’t even know we exist, right!
That kind of behavior and mentality has to change sooner rather than later, though. You need to stop being the chaser and become the prize. You need to make sure you can get people dying for your attention and begging to take you out on dates. If you have pretty low self-esteem, then you probably feel as though this kind of thing could never help. Well, I’ve got news for you. Anyone can get another person obsessing over them – it’s just a case of adapting your mindset and the way you live your life. If you want to be more successful in this world of love and relationships, and you’re sick of being taken for a moron whenever you start developing feelings, then do the following things, and you’ll be well on your way to a better, love-filled future:
Always Be Yourself
This is the key to any real successful relationship, but it’s also important when you’re looking for the right person. If you act like something else or tell lies, then you’re going to be making issues for yourself and for them later on down the line. Don’t worry about trying to act a certain way – that never works in the long-term. If someone likes you, then they’ll like you for YOU. Never be afraid to say your opinion, either. Say and do what you want – as long as you’re not hurting anyone, of course. Having opinions and being your own person is super attractive. People won’t go trying to walk all over you when you’re a strong personality as you’re in charge.
Talk To Multiple People
Some people don’t like the idea of doing this as it makes them feel a little mean. You do not have to be loyal to anyone, though – even the person who you are most interested in right now. Someone else might come along and blow the competition wide open. You should always look to find the best possible partner for you. Doing this will also increase your confidence with those you’re interested in.
Always Change Up Your Look
If you always look the same, you’ll probably bore those you’re speaking to. While many people won’t mind as long as you’re a good person, it’s nice to change things up and keep them right at the top of their interest. So, why not check out the latest women’s pants or the cutest tops every now and again. People notice!
Don’t Fall For Them Quickly!
This is difficult to do if you’re quite a sensitive soul and a sucker for a wonderful gesture. You need to realize that you’re not going to fall head-over-heels in love straight away and that these will simply be good feelings. Don’t fall into the trap quickly as the chances are that you’ll end up being stung at the end of it. Live your life and view others as a supplement – it’s the best way of slowly finding true love.
What are some things you do to get the person you’re interested in chasing you? Let me know in the comments below!